A teenage girl in Maryland was the victim of religious persecution in a youth basketball league earlier this week, when 12-year-old Maheem Haq, a Muslim, was forced to sit on the bench for the first half of a basketball game because of her headscarf.
According to WJZ TV in Baltimore, Haq refused to take off her headscarf when a Hagerstown youth basketball league ref requested she do so. Her refusal led the ref to bar her from the game's first half.
"We were very upset when we heard about it," Connie Cline, the mother of one of Haq's teammates told WJZ. "She has been able to play the entire time and there's never been a problem."
While the referee's decision has been widely condemned, the official was technically within his right, because the Mid-Maryland Girls Basketball league hadn't asked for a specific exemption to allow Haq to wear her religious wrap in games. The official in question, who has not been named, deemed that the scarf represented a safety hazard and banned Haq from the game on those grounds. It has already been announced that the referee will face no penalty for his decision to force Haq out of competition.
"The referee was within his rights. He was right to do what he did," Mid-Maryland Girls' Basketball's Daphnie Campbell told WJZ-TV. "I will accept full responsibility for it. Being new, no, I didn't know anything about it. I didn't know I had to ask for permission, I didn't know a letter had to be on file. I didn't know anything of that."
Still, the decision was a surprising one, because it was the first time any referee had made a comment about Haq's headwrap. The 12-year-old had previously played basketball while wearing a headscarf for three years without incident.
The television station reported that Haq's team actually offered to forfeit the game as a protest of the perceived discrimination against the Muslim player, but Haq's family refused to allow it. Instead, the teen's father said his daughter sitting out the half was a way to stand up for her religious beliefs and prove one can accommodate both Muslim traditions and modern American pastimes.
Since the disputed matchup, Haq has been allowed to return to game action with her headscarf thanks to a new league bylaw, which stipulates that a written request from any athlete's parents is enough to grant a uniform exemption.
Haq's parents filed that paperwork, and the 12-year-old is back competing with her teammates.
"I was upset a little bit because I really wanted to play and I enjoy playing basketball," Haq told WJZ. ...
"[Now] I feel really happy. I feel great."
While the incident may have led to some hurt feelings, Haq's coach said his player's insistence on maintaining her beliefs also helped teach a life lesson to her teammates.
"I do feel that some people were offended or emotions were hurt, and that's not what we're here for. We're here to learn sports and maybe some life skills along the way," said Coach Mark HershnerShared from Yahoo News.
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From my own experience, I faced no problem wearing full clothing as a Muslim teenage lady, particularly for sports. Alhamdulillah my former netball trainees last year scored the best for their friendly netball tournament despite their clothing.
I had once 'jumped' into a swimming pool at a hotel (while accompanying my mum for her trainings) wearing a long sleeved t-shirt and a 60'' headscarf (although I think the hotel's staff looked at me in a weird way).
There are many benefits of covering the aurah. Protects from fitnah ; I think I feel more secure wearing loose clothing for sports as you would be jumping, fall, run during games. In daily life, there are times that require us to run ( like rushing to the LRT coach before the door closes), kejar bas, being squashed like a can of sardines in the KTM commuter coach (minimize the risk of any unwanted harassment).
It also makes our job easier when it is time to perform the prayer especially when you need to rush @ attend to other matters after that. Just make sure that the clothing are free from najis. Recently, went to KLCC to meet up with mum who had a meeting there. The time is already 7:30pm the moment I stepped out from the LRT. Went to the surau and there...the crowd was just...WHOA! Luckily I still have my wudhu'. Looked around for a suitable spot among the crowd and perform my Maghrib prayer.
Remembered few years back. Me and my family was on our back from our kampung in Johor and stopped by a surau to perform the prayers. A makcik at the surau upon seeing me wearing a baju kurung without putting on the telekung and about to angkat takbir said " Adik, telekung ada kat belakang tu". She said it repeatedly but I just gave her a smile and proceed with my prayers.
What a Muslim girl need is to strongly hold on and be proud of what she have.
May Allah give us strength and guidance for us to be a better 'abid, Insya Allah.
Allah Knows Best.
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